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VICTORIOUS over Loneliness

5/11/2020

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Social distancing isn’t my favorite.
Maybe it isn’t yours either.
 
But if you ever feel like you’re social distancing life isn’t very fun for you, google #SocialDistancingFails. You’ll quickly realize maybe you don’t have it so bad.
 
Like this guy who wanted some bananas, because he wanted to stay safe, he ordered 3 bananas for delivery –and received three bunches instead.
Or the guy whose phone stopped working, but because the repair shop was closed, he bought himself a brand-new phone – which he proceeded to drop as he opened the package.
Or this family, whose kid heard his mom talking about how she’d have to give him a haircut since the barber was closed, so - he tried it himself.
 
Social distancing is necessary for preventing the spread of the virus.
But it may also exacerbate another struggle:
 
Loneliness.
 
Loneliness has been a problem in America before social distancing was ever a thing.
 
  • According to a poll conducted by the University of Michigan, one in four adults ages 50 to 80 said they felt isolated.
    (National Poll on Healthy Aging, HealthyAgingPoll.org)
 
  • In the same study, 60 percent of those who lived alone reported feeling a lack of companionship, and 41 percent felt isolated.
    (National Poll on Healthy Aging, HealthyAgingPoll.org)
 
  • In 2018, the U.S. Census reported that there were 35.7 million Americans living alone. (Census.gov)
 
  • Social isolation and loneliness have been linked to heart disease, diabetes, anxiety, and depression.
 
  • Isolation is estimated to increase the risk of early death by 26 percent” (U.S. National Library of Medicine, PubMed.gov).
 
  • It has been equated to “smoking 15 cigarettes a day” (“Loneliness is Harmful to our Nation’s Health,” ScientificAmerican.com).
 
Today we’re going see how Jesus gives us VICTORY OVER LONELINESS. Before we do that, a prayer: O Lord, strengthen us by the truth. Your Word is the truth. Open our eyes to see what you want us to see; open our ears to hear what you want us to hear; and open our hearts to believe what you would have us believe. Amen.
 
I. What Makes the Good Shepherd “Good”
 
The Scripture we’re going to start with today comes from John 10.
 
Jesus said, “I am the Good Shepherd.” (John 10:11)
 
Shepherding was very common at the time of Jesus. Shepherds would usually take their flocks outside the city. They’d watch over them as they grazed. They’d lead them to water. They’d protect the sheep from any dangerous predators.
 
If you were a good shepherd, the sheep would be generally well fed.
You’d be awake watching the flock, for as long as your shift lasted.
And when the owner showed up to ask how you were doing, you were amicable.
 
That’s the human definition of “good” shepherd.
But that’s not God’s definition of a GOOD shepherd:
 
The Good Shepherd lays down his life for the sheep. The hired man, who is not a shepherd, does not own the sheep. He sees the wolf coming, leaves the sheep, and runs away. Then the wolf attacks the sheep and scatters them. Because he works for money, he does not care about the sheep. (John 10:11-13)
 
In the literal sense of what Jesus says, let’s not judge the hired hand too harshly.
We see the passage and we think – how awful that hired hand is – he runs away from those poor sheep.
How could he do that?
 
Well…
 
If you worked at Starbucks, would you be willing to mix up a Latte, if it meant dodging machine gun fire over your head?
If you were a dog walker, would you keep doing your job, even if there were reports of land mines planted up and down your street?
If you were an accountant, would you be willing to do people’s taxes, even if alligators kept attacking you every time you started a spreadsheet (because they love “crunching” numbers)?
 
Of course not.
These are just jobs.
They might not be worth your life.
 
This is happening right now.
People aren’t going to work, because it isn’t worth getting the Coronavirus and possibly dying.
 
It’s the same thing with shepherding.
Shepherding was a regular line of work.
You got paid to watch sheep.
Most shepherds would not lay down their lives for their sheep.
 
Because $10 bucks an hour is not worth becoming a deli sandwich for a wolf pack.
 
Most shepherds wouldn’t lay down their lives for the sheep.
 
Most…
 
Jesus said, “I am the Good Shepherd. The Good Shepherd lays down his life for the sheep.” (John 10:11)
 
Jesus is the Good Shepherd.
You are his sheep.
Jesus lays down his life for you.
 
Key TRUTH 1:
The Good Shepherd would rather lose HIS LIFE than lose YOU.
 
II. The Good Shepherd Rescues
 
And you ask, “How was God about to lose me?”
 
OK…
 
Do you want to know the honest truth about sin?
Sin is reprehensible to God.
 
Granted – some sins are repulsive to us too.
 
Racism.
Terrorism.
Rape.
 
But not all sin is.
 
For instance:
You probably don’t have a problem with a few lies.
A gossipy comment on Facebook.
A lustful look every now and then.
A brief headache from a night of overdrinking.
Even a short, three-minute complaint session about your spouse.
 
Here’s where God is different.
 
TRUTH:
God won’t allow SIN in his PRESENCE.
 
It’s like that one friend on Facebook that gets a bit too political for your taste.
They post every hour on the hour.
Unfortunately, you’ve paused to get angry at his posts long enough that Facebook recognizes your interests and shows you more and more of his political commentary.
 
Until eventually, you can’t stand it anymore.
You click in the upper right-hand corner.
You SNOOZE him for 30 days.
 
You have successfully removed him from your presence.
 
That’s how God feels about sin.
He hates sin so much that he wants sin completely removed from his presence.
But it’s deeper than that.
 
The other day there was a stink coming from our house. I couldn’t exactly identify what the stink was, so I tried various things.
 
Open the windows? Didn’t get rid of it.
Grab some Febreeze and cover the couches? Nope.
Burn a Pumpkin Spiced Latte candle? Now it just smells like Pumpkin Spiced Latte stink.
 
Finally, I got a bit too close to my dog, Clay.
I gave him a sniff.
 
And immediately took him outside.
 
If you want to treat the stink, remove the source of the stink.
 
God truly wants to treat sin.
But he knows that he can’t just treat the symptoms of sin.
He must remove the source.
 
And what’s the source of a sin? A sinner.
What’s the source of your sin?
 
Look at what Isaiah 59:2,
Your sins have separated you from your God!
 
Read that again. Slowly.
Your sins have separated YOU from God.
 
It doesn’t say, “Your sins have separated themselves from God!”
Nope.
 
It says, “Your sins have separated YOU from God. “
 
TRUTH:
God won’t allow SINNERS in His PRESENCE.
 
Friend, listen to God’s Word.
If this isn’t corrected, you’ll be socially distanced from God for all of eternity.
It’s the worse social isolation of all time.
 
Hell.
Hell is eternal social distancing from God!
It’s a place where God isn’t there.
 
Grasp that:
Sometimes on earth – things are bad.
But…at least we’ve got God.
 
Hell?
 
There’s no GOD in hell.
There’s only LONELINESS.
And ISOLATION.
 
Forever.
 
But you see, this is where the Good Shepherd comes in.
Even though God, as Holy Judge, can’t stand your sin,
God, as Good Shepherd, can’t stand losing you.
 
He noticed that you were missing.
He noticed that you weren’t with the flock.
He noticed that you weren’t safely in God’s pastures.
 
So…
 
The Good Shepherd picked up his staff.
The Good Shepherd put on his cloak.
The Good Shepherd walked out of his pasture.
 
The Good Shepherd came into Valley of the Shadow of Death. (We call it: Earth.)
 
And on earth, he found you.
Surrounded by wolves:
 
Sin.
Shame.
Guilt.
 
All led by that alpha dog, Satan.
 
But the Good Shepherd wasn’t afraid.
The Good Shepherd didn’t turn back.
The Good Shepherd made a deal with the wolves.
 
“Let my sheep go.”
“And…”
“You can have me instead.”
 
And the wolves tore him to shreds.
They surrounded him!
They roughed him up.
They barked insults at him.
They tore his clothing.
They salivated as his blood.
And howled with delight as he died.
 
Why?
Why did the Shepherd allow this?
Why didn’t he run?
 
Simple
 
To save you.
 
TRUTH:
The Good Shepherd allowed the wolves to HARM him that they wouldn’t harm YOU.
 
Allow me to give you a straightforward message from God’s word.
 
Because of what the Good Shepherd did, the wolf of sin no longer surrounds you.
Because of what the Good Shepherd, the wolf of guilt cannot lick its chops.
Because of what the Good Shepherd did, you will not be eternally isolated.
Because of what the Good Shepherd did, you are not separated from God.
 
Because of what the Good Shepherd did, you…have been brought…home.
 
KEY TRUTH 2:
The Good Shepherd saved you from ETERNAL ISOLATION.
 
III. The Good Shepherd Lives
 
Granted, that is great news!
You aren’t alone.
You are in God’s flock.
You are a part of God’s pasture.
 
You aren’t spiritually isolated from God.
 
Still…
It’s a bit dissatisfying.
 
We’re out of isolation.
But we had to lose the Good Shepherd in order to get here.
 
It’s too bad he couldn’t overpower the wolves.
 
Look at what Jesus says in verse 18:
No one takes my life from me, but I lay it down on my own. I have the authority to lay it down, and I have the authority to take it up again. (v.18)
 
Do you see that?
The wolves didn’t take the Good Shepherd’s life,
The Good Shepherd gave his life to them.
 
And why did he give it?
 
Because he knows he could take his life back again.
 
TRUTH:
The Good Shepherd let the wolves OVERPOWER him because he knew he could overpower DEATH.
 
Talk about a skillset!
 
I don’t think any other shepherd had that skill.
 
Some were skilled at navigating to find water.
Others were skilled at identifying non-poisonous plants for the sheep to eat.
A few could probably sheer the wool into a killer mohawk.
 
But the Good Shepherd’s greatest skill?
Mastery over death.
 
And that’s exactly what happened!
Three days later, Jesus rose from the dead.
He came out of the grave.
He resurrected his own body.
 
And he lives!
 
KEY TRUTH 3:
The Good Shepherd LIVES!
 
Right now, he’s with you.
Right now, he’s watching over you.
 
Even if you’re at home alone.
Even if you’re in a hospital bed alone.
Even if you haven’t seen another person in 16 days!
 
Jesus is with you.
You aren’t alone.
 
IV. The Good Shepherd Knows You
 
Sometimes you’d rather be alone than with someone.
 
For instance, I have no desire to be left alone with any kind clown.
 
Not a creepy one.
Not a regular one.
Not Bozo the clown.
 
Nope.
 
I’d rather be alone than with any of those clowns.
 
Maybe it’s similar for you.
 
Maybe you don’t want to be alone with your 7th grade math teacher.
Maybe you don’t want to be alone with your ex-spouse.
Maybe you don’t want to be alone with that former friend who dragged your name through the mud.
 
Maybe you don’t want to be alone with a stranger!
 
Picture that. Imagine you were isolated with someone who didn’t know you and you didn’t know them.
 
Ummm…Hi!
I see that you have hair.
So…what’s your favorite flavor of Dorito?
 
Jesus isn’t a stranger.
“I am the Good Shepherd. I know my sheep and my sheep know me just as the Father knows me and I know the Father. And I lay down my life for the sheep.” (V.15)
 
Granted, there are billions of people in the world. It would be downright impossible for any one human to know them all.
In fact, I doubt there’s anyone in Raleigh who knows everyone in Raleigh.
Honestly, I don’t think I know all the people on my Facebook feed.
 
But Jesus knows all of those people.
And Jesus knows YOU.
And he knows you WELL.
 
TRUTH:
Jesus knows YOU as intricately as he knows his FATHER.
 
God is Triune.
That means he is three in one.
 
The Father is God.
Jesus is God.
The Holy Spirit is God.
 
Yet there aren’t three gods, but one God.
 
The Father is God.
Jesus is God.
The Holy Spirit is God.
 
Yet there isn’t just one person, but three distinct persons.
 
This is impossible to fully grasp and understand.
But God gets it.
 
He understands how the three persons in the Godhead intersect.
He knows where one ends and the other begins.
He grasps how they are all three perfectly united as one Being.
 
And that’s how well God knows you.
 
He knows your fears.
He knows your sadness.
He knows your heartaches.
He knows what you’re going through right now.
 
And he is there with you.
 
Jesus knew your SECRET sin – and still DIED for you.
 
That’s what he repeats in verse 15. He says, “I lay down my life for the sheep.”
 
But Jesus isn’t repeating it just to show off.
He wants you to know how well he knows you.
 
He knows that it was YOU who stole the cookie from the cookie jar way back when you were 6.
He knows that it was YOU who graffitied that bathroom stall in high school.
He knows that it was YOU who passed on that gossip about your best friend.
 
He knows what YOU did behind closed doors.
He knows what YOU did under cover of darkness.
He knows what YOU did and have never told anyone.
 
He knows it.
And he still died for you.
 
KEY TRUTH 4:
The Good Shepherd KNOWS you better than ANYONE.
 
He knows your strengths.
He knows your weaknesses.
He knows exactly how he’ll work through you to bring more sheep into his sheep pen.
 
This leads to the “What Now?” for the week.
 
V. What Now?
 
(1) Call Out to Sheep Outside the Pen!
 
Jesus says this, “I also have other sheep that are not of this sheep pen. I must bring them also, and they will listen to my voice. (v.16)
 
Jesus isn’t satisfied with the sheep that are in his sheep pen now.
There are others who don’t know about his love.
There are others who aren’t believers.
There are others who aren’t a part of his sheep pen...
 
…yet.
 
If that’s you, listen to his voice right now.
 
He’s calling you.
Follow him.
Come into the sheep pen.
 
But for those of us already in the sheep pen, this is Jesus command to us.
 
Call out to those other sheep.
Tell them about Jesus.
Share with them the Gospel message.
 
CHALLENGE:
 
If you know someone who doesn’t know about Jesus, write their name down.
 
Write it down and then, here’s what I want you to do.
 
Look for ways to share Jesus with them.
 
You could talk with them about Jesus.
You could send them a text message with a link to this video.
You could send them an inspirational scripture.
 
Do this today – and then – put the note on your fridge –
So that you can do it again later this week.
 
The truth is that sometimes you must keep calling and calling.
If you have a pet, you understand this.
As you keep calling and calling, the Good Shepherd’s voice will be heard through your voice…
Calling them home.
 
(2) Call Out to Sheep Inside the Pen
 
Right now, we can’t physically get together.
But we need to still stay connected.
 
Look at what verse 17 says:
Then there will be one flock and one shepherd.
 
We are one flock.
We have one shepherd.
It’s Jesus.
 
So…
 
CHALLENGE #2
 
Write down someone that you know from our church community.
You can use the same piece of scratch paper.
Write down someone that you know and haven’t talked to in a while.
 
Got it down?
 
Reach out to them today.
Text to see how they’re doing.
Call to see what’s been going on.
Facetime so that you can smile at them.
 
Not only will they be hearing your voice.
Not only will you be hearing theirs.
But together, you’ll be hearing the Good Shepherd’s.
 
Because sheep know their shepherd’s voice.
 
There’s this video on YouTube of a field trip to a farm.
They came to the pasture with the sheep and the shepherd asked them to each take a shot at calling the sheep over to the gate.
 
The first kid tried, “Here sheepy! Sheepy!”
Nothing.
 
The second kid tried, “C’mon! Sheep. This way!”
Nothing.
 
A chaperone tried, “Baa! Baa! Come over here!”
Still nothing.
 
Finally, it was the shepherd’s turn.
Now, it’s in Norwegian, so I’ll give you my best guess, but…
 
The shepherd calls out: “Alright sheep. Time to go!”
 
As soon as they hear his voice, the sheep look up.
As soon as he finishes his sentence, the sheep start moving.
Within 15 seconds, the whole flock comes running to their shepherd’s voice.
 
The sheep know the voice of their shepherd.
We know the voice of our shepherd.
And our shepherd says, “We aren’t alone.” Amen.
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