Did you buy any good gifts this year?
I think that the best way to know what someone wants would be to hack into their Facebook feed. Here’s why – Facebook tracks the things that you do on their platform and (maybe you’ve noticed this) over the holiday season they send advertisements that are specifically tailored to what you.
So – in case you hadn’t gotten me anything yet – here’s a list of some gifts that Facebook thinks a pastor may like:
A mug (because Facebook knows I like coffee).
It says: “May suddenly start talking about theology” Because Facebook must know I’m a pastor.
Also, because I’m a pastor: A T-shirt that reads: “Pastor, because devil stomping ninja isn’t a real title.”
A Kevin Malone broccoli clock. Which is probably on there because I’m a big fan of the Office.
Socks with my face on them. I’m not sure what that says about me.
Tonight, I want to talk to you about the BEST gift ever…
A gift that just so happens to be for you.
Before we begin unwrapping it, a prayer: O Lord, strengthen us by the truth, your Word is truth. Open our eyes to see what you want us to see, our ears to hear what you want us to hear and our hearts to believe what you would have us believe. Amen.
I. The Giver
First, let’s examine who the giver is. Look in John 3:16,
“For GOD so loved the world that he gave…”
When you’re younger, isn’t it true that sometimes the excitement you have for a gift is based entirely on whose name is on the giving tag?
From Aunt Matilda, who always sends a box of chocolate covered peanut butter Bon-bons? Excited.
From Aunt Zelda, who always sends a box of quinoa covered carrot cakes? Less excited.
From Uncle Carl, who sends items from his world travels? Very excited.
From Uncle Merle, who always sends Werther’s caramel candies? Not so much.
From the grandma who always gets you all the Lego toys, and actions figures and video games you ever wanted? Jackpot!
From the grandma who always gets you money for your school trust fund? Not so much.
Who is this gift from?
It’s not an aunt.
It’s not an uncle.
It’s not any kind of measly, old human.
He holds up the planets.
He rotates the earth around the sun.
He has store house after store house filled with beautiful snowflakes – no two are alike!
He knows exactly what you truly, deeply want and need.
TRUTH: There is no better giver than GOD.
You can put anyone up against him.
Rich Uncle Joe.
Even Santa! Cause from what I hear – he’s a good toy maker.
But if you put him up against God?
Santa is pretty good at making toy blocks that you can use to build towers.
God? He put together the literal mountains out in Ashville.
Santa has perfected how to make a model train go by plugging it into electricity.
God has perfected how to make the coal that makes the real 18,000-ton trains go across country.
Santa, if he works hard enough on it, he can produce a lifelike baby doll.
God? He knits together real babies and gives them real life.
This gift is from God, so you already know It’s the best gift ever!
II. The Recipient
Right next to the giver’s name on a gift tag is usually the recipient’s name. It’s no different with God’s BEST EVER gift.
For God so loved THE WORLD that he gave…
Did you catch that?
Do you see the recipient?
It’s a quite unique name tag.
God is giving his gift to the world.
TRUTH: God gave to the ENTIRE WORLD.
Did you know that there are currently an estimated 7.7 billion people in the world today?
From Raleigh to Durham.
From the U.S. to Mexico.
From North America to South America.
From Ethiopia to Sweden.
From Russia to China.
From Iraq to Iran.
Even to the scientists down in Antarctica!
God got a gift for the whole world!
Can you imagine doing shopping for that many people?
I don’t want to even guess what Amazon would charge for shipping.
But at the same time this gift is for the whole world, you need to pay special attention.
Because it isn’t just talking about all the people on the other side of the world.
It isn’t just talking about all the other people in Raleigh.
it isn’t just talking about all the other people in this church right now.
This gift is given FOR YOU.
Because while God’s big enough to make a gift for the whole world.
He’s knows you intimately enough to tailor his gift for you.
Especially for you.
Specifically, for you.
Uniquely for you.
This isn’t like a plate of cookies that is given to your whole family. It’s OK. It’s good. But you don’t get all of it.
You must share.
You must give some to your sister.
And she gets to keep the green sprinkled Christmas tree that you wanted!
But not this gift.
It’s a gift that is fully and completely for the world.
At the same time, it’s a gift that’s fully and completely for you.
Only God can do that.
And he did.
It’s his gift.
III. The Why
But hold on one more time…
We’ll have a better appreciation for the gift if we understand the WHY behind the gift.
Why did God get us a gift? Check out John 3:16 again:
For God so loved the world that he gave…
Did you catch that?
God gave because he SO LOVED.
Notice. This is much different than human reasoning for gifts:
“I bought you this new type of coffee, because I know you love coffee.”
“I got you this beautiful ornament, because it reminds me how beautiful you are.”
“I got you a new toothbrush, because…you need to brush your teeth.”
“I got you this five-dollar gift card, because the office Christmas party gift exchange said that I have to.”
God gave because he loved.
Yet… you might get a gift from someone that says, “Because I love you.”
That’s why we need to examine the word even more closely.
Because the word for love here is agape.
It means, “Unconditional.”
And we’ve got to understand that love is UNCONDITIONAL.
That’s good news. Because if someone has been a jerk to you throughout the year, how much do you want to get them a present?
Quick question – how many of you are getting lovely Christmas gifts for someone that has been awful to you?
I’m guessing – not many.
Here’s the truth – We’ve been awful to God.
All he asked this past year is that we follow him.
That we love others.
That we stop being selfish.
That we stop being jerks.
That we worship him.
That we pray to him.
That we spend time with him.
How well did you do with that?
God GAVE because he LOVED UNCONDITIONALLY.
Doesn’t matter if you’ve lied.
Doesn’t matter if you’ve stolen.
Doesn’t matter if you’ve lost friends.
Doesn’t matter if your marriage is ruined.
Doesn’t matter if you yelled at your kids.
Doesn’t matter if you’ve struggled with addiction.
Doesn’t matter if you’ve been in prison.
God’s gift is for you, because God loved you.
And God loves you.
Are you excited to check out the gift?
IV. The GIFT
To find out the gift, we need to go backwards…
About 2000 years ago…
A virgin became pregnant.
Then, she travelled.
To a town.
A small town.
A town called Bethlehem.
Across the desert.
Across hundreds of miles.
While she as 8 months pregnant…
Only to find there was no room.
Not in the Days Inn.
Not in the Holiday Inn.
Not even in the Motel Six.
“I don’t have a room. But I do have a stable.”
And into the stable…
And they hold their noses from the animal’s smells.
And cover their ears from the animal noises.
And Mary sets herself up on some hay.
And she sweats.
And she groans.
“While they were there the time came for the baby to be born, and she gave birth to her firstborn, a Son, she wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger...” (Luke 2:6)
Was God’s gift.
TRUTH: God’s gift is a baby.
And you might think: A baby? That’s God’s gift for me.
I’ve had my fill of babies.
I’m not fit to be a daddy.
How can I take care of a baby, if I’m not even old enough to take care of myself?
But look deeper:
Because there in the manger.
Wrapped up in hay.
Wrapped up in swaddling clothes.
Wrapped up in flesh.
Is something more…
For God so loved the world that he gave HIS ONE AND ONLY Son…
Notice the phrase there.
One and only Son.
Because, in one sense, we’re all God’s children.
He created all of us.
He gave each of us life.
God doesn’t have just one child.
The word for Son here.
References one who is begotten.
Some translations even clarify that…
Only BEGOTTEN son.
Just like humans birth humans.
And reindeer birth reindeer.
And elves birth elves.
God births God.
Do you get it?
This is God’s Son.
And since God begets God.
This is God himself!
TRUTH: God’s gift is Himself!
God knew your sin.
God knew your struggles.
God knew your failures.
God knew your pain.
God send Jesus to do something about it.
And when that baby grew up?
He’d live perfectly.
He’d die innocently.
He’d rise triumphantly for the forgiveness of all your sins.
Such that John 3:16 remains true:
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son that WHOEVER believes in him will not perish but have ETERNAL LIFE.
Do you see why this is the greatest gift ever?
Because in Jesus, we have eternal life.
Because there’s nothing that will ruin any gift more than death.
Like my grandma Jan.
She was one of the best gift givers in my family.
She always knew what I wanted.
Always got me the toy that I wanted.
Stood in line for hours at Toys ‘R Us.
Stayed up late making sure to get the best Christmas goodies ready for our visit.
…There aren’t any packages in the mail from her this year.
There won’t be any goodies.
There won’t be any visit.
God gave Grandma the gift of a Savior.
Grandma believed God.
Grandma now enjoys the gift of eternal life.
That same gift is wrapped up in Jesus for you. Amen.